Mr Lex - Hello Ms Dotson 1st off thanks for taking time out your day to do this interview so how are you doing?
Stephanie "SDot" Dotson - I'm doing well luv. How are you?
Mr Lex - I am doing a lot better now that I get to interview the baddest redhead in the biz!!!! lol When did you start modeling?
Stephanie "SDot" Dotson - I've been modeling since I was 16. But I've been a red head redbone since oct of 2007 LOL.It seems like like the world likes the red head best.
Mr Lex - On behalf of the world yes we do! lol I also heard your a gamer and like to play xbox? what games do play? and are you any good?
Stephanie "SDot" Dotson - street fighter all day luv, NBA Live, and I can kick ass in guitar hero LOL. Bring IT.
Mr Lex - oh yea well consider it brought!!!! anytime red!! but just to give you a heads up my NBA Live stats don't look that good right now..... but im better than my 38- 2 record but since we are talkn about records what your fav songs right now? R&B and hip hop?
Stephanie "SDot" Dotson - I am a very out going person and determined, if I want something bad enough I will get. Hands Down LOL! But on the other hand, I like to have fun and live life to the fullest. I do everything I can to be great because I don't wan't to look back at my life with regret.
Mr Lex - Whats are some guilty pleasures most people don't know you have?
Stephanie "SDot" Dotson -OMG this is gonna sound so bad but it's practicing on my stripper pole at home. hahaha like not too many people know that about me but I do have a stripper pole fellas.
Mr Lex - Stripper pole!!!! wow.............. (Mr Lex is literally drooling) I dint know if I told you this but I am an official stripper pole practicer critic I Just got my licence. Are you single?
Stephanie "SDot" Dotson - Yes I am.
Mr Lex - After this interview i am sure you wont be for long lol Describe the type of guy you are attracted or qualities your ideal man should have?
Stephanie "SDot" Dotson - I like assertive guys. They have to know what they want and like to have fun, nice smile, decent feet ( I cannot stress that enough guys), and sense of humor. But Back to that assertive thing, If a man let's me push him around he's not a real man to me. Turnin me off as Ms. Hilson would say.
Mr Lex -Daymnbunyouns!!!! Oh well ...... Name 3 celebrities you find attractive?
Stephanie "SDot" Dotson - Andree 300, Big Gipp, Idris Elba
Mr Lex - Where would be the best place to take you on a date? and should a man always pay?
Stephanie "SDot" Dotson -Bossinovas on sunset. You can never go wrong. I mean if he's inviting then yes he should, but if not then I can hold my own.
Mr Lex - What was the most romantic or sexiest thing anyone has ever done for you or vice versa?
Stephanie "SDot" Dotson - My mate at the time made me dinner, ran me a hot bubble bath, gave me a nice body rub, then he gave me great kuttyLOL. Mines was taking him him to meet the owner of his favorite basketball team (the lakers) stayed with him in the box the entire game and afterwards he got to meet the players. He was smitten by that.
Mr Lex - lucky man ok sounds like you have a romantic side but If you were in a situation and had to chose between a new love and a new career like one of our writers what one would you pick and why?
Stephanie "SDot" Dotson - I think it would have to be my career because before I can love anyone I have to love Stephanie Dotson first. If I don't do that and make my money first no one will respect me. No man can honestly say they want a female who isn't about anything at all.
Mr Lex - True and good point! What are some of your goals for 2009? and what do you see yourself doing in the next 5 yrs?
Stephanie "SDot" Dotson - My goals this year are pretty much set in stone, to get in as many projects as possible and get my name nationally known. As far as my future goes I'd like to start my clothing line and open my first store in Manhattan NYC.
Mr Lex - well please keep us posted ! Where can we see more of you?
Stephanie "SDot" Dotson - You can catch me on MTV working on a few things with smooth mag and my people out in NYC. so Look out world because SDOT is coming for you. Sugar, Spice, and everything Nice. LOL
Mr Lex - You will definitely be on our radar! Is there anything else you would like to say?
Mr Lex- Ms Nikki Apple Bottom Torres how are you? and how is everything going in your world?
Nikki - I'm doing well! Everything in my world is really amazing right now, I'm just following where the wind takes me or shall I say where God takes me.
Mr Lex - How long have you been modeling and what are some of your other accomplishments?
Nikki -I've been modeling, seriously, going on three years now. I started off as a print model for intimate apparel Beauty and Lace and its subsidiary Naughty Girls 4 Fun wear, and have since branched off to video modeling and spokes modeling. Television is where I really see my career headed, as I am currently working on a project for Showtime, as well as, being a TV Personality for "Livin The Hustle".
Mr Lex - Please keep us informed about your show and other projects when you can! Can you tell me more about "Livin the Hustle"and your role with it? and who are some other celebs you've meet being involved with this?
Nikki - I am currently the host of "Livin The Hustle" which is a series dedicated to highlighting individuals in the game (artists and celebrities) hustlin to make it or if they are already in the game, hustlin to maintain it. It brings a positive light on what goes on behind the glitz and glam of celebrities by obtaining exclusive interviews and highlighting performances of different artists. I have had the opportunity to interview the likes of: Chamillionaire, Paul Wall, Slim Thug, Wendy Day (Founder of the Rap Coalition), DJ Drama, TJ Chapman (Tj'sDj's), to politicians such as Councilman Jarvis out of Houston's B District, just to name a few.
Mr Lex - Wow you definitely are living the hustle yourself also. Ok i couldn't have let this been a official redlightsextion interview without asking you about this. Ive been to your myspace page and read some of your blogs and I had 2 ask what prompted the sex strike lol??? and would you ever try it again??
Nikki -LOL!!! Well when I posted that blog back in November of 2007, I had EVERY intention of holding out for a long time. I was tired of great sex being the reason I stayed with a particular someone when I knew they were no good for me, but the strike only lasted about two weeks because the temptation was too much for me to bear at the time. I have been on one other strike since then which lasted about 6 months, and it was actually a really good experience, so yes I would do it again as long as I can keep using my "toys" LOL.
Mr Lex - 6 months whoa. I was on a sex strike also but it just wasn't voluntarily lol but that is a whole other story. What are some reasons you think a lot of men are scared of strong independent women? What qualities would a man your interested in need to have?
Nikki - I personally think a lot of men are afraid of having to measure up to women who can do for themselves everything a man is "supposed" to do for a woman. I think independent women make a lot of men feel inferior. In general, most men like the notion of being a provider so when that is taken away from them they usually don't know how to deal; its unfortunate because most of the time what we as independent women want is someone to love us, we don't care about what you can do for us because we already got what we need on our own. For me personally, a man has to be confident because I can't stand an insecure man, a great sense of humor, and he has to have realistic dreams and ambitions.
Mr Lex - (Mr. Lex sighs..... then stops daydreaming about soaking in the Jacuzzi on his personal leer jet with his face painted on the side of it that is currently flying him to his own personal island of nothing but women that look like Nikki that will feed him grapes and steak ums) Oh well..... What are some things that keep you motivated on achieving your goals?
Nikki - Well I have two daughters that look up to me, so I have to be an example, which makes me mindful of everything that I do. They are my daily motivations to keep pushing hard until I accomplish my goals because when all is said and done, they are the ones who will reap the benefits.
Mr Lex- I seen you were working on getting in better shape and last i saw your body is looking phenomenal are you on any special diet or workout program? I've been kinda lazy lately so is there any advice you can give us couch potatoes?
Nikki - I wouldn't say I am on a diet, but I did have a lifestyle change. I realized I was sending myself to an early grave by eating fast food all the time, not working out, and eating any and everything I wanted. The reality check for me came when I saw a picture of me, and I was like, "When did I get a double chin?!", that picture is one I carry with me to this day as a constant reminder that I can never let myself get like that again. For those couch potatoes out there, I am currently working on a fitness video, with MMA trainer Duane Stevenson. However, until that comes out, I would say try to incorporate a minimum of 30 minutes of activity whether its taking a walk, swimming, or running. The key is to get your body moving. If fitness isn't something you can fit in your life at the moment then at least start making healthy eating choices. Carry an apple with you, not only are they nutritious they fill you up, and drink water its good for you inside and out. Subtle eating changes go a long way.
Mr Lex - (puts down the Pepsi and grabs diet Pepsi) Are you currently single?
Nikki - I am single, although my myspace currently says "in a relationship", I've yet to meet my knight in shining armor.
Mr Lex - What would be your ideal 1st date? What would you want to do and where would you want to go?
Nikki - I don't have an ideal 1st date because my dates are based upon the vibe I get from the other person, whereas, one guy may be suitable for a nice Italian restaurant another may be right for attending a football game. It all depends on who the date is with.
Mr Lex - Should you ever give a lover that cheated a 2nd chance? and could the relationship ever be the same if you do?
Nikki - It really boils down to trust, for me, that is an extremely hard thing to get back once its gone. The relationship can NEVER be the same because you'll always be looking over your shoulder and wondering "hmmmmm, I wonder if he/she is creepin' again".If I believed in my heart they were TRULY remorseful, then yes, I would give the cheater a second chance.
Mr Lex - Who is a star or celebrity you had a childhood crush on growing up?
Nikki - I had and still do have the BIGGEST crush on Johnny Depp. One day (sigh)....lol
Mr Lex - Mr Edward Scissorhand/Capt Jack????? hummmlol What songs have you been listening to lately? Whats on your Ipod or in your CD player?
Mr Lex - Is there anything else you would like to say?
Nikki - A lot of people measure their daily success by the amount of money they have or the assets they've obtained, I measure success by the random people that come up to me and tell me that I have inspired them to do better for themselves. If my life can touch just one person, then I have accomplished my goal for the day. Hopefully, this interview has inspired just one person out there to want better for their lives.
XOXO, Nikki Apple Bottom
Thanks for your time! Mr Lex
also check out Nikki's youtube videos she is funny! Lol @ the end of this
MS. NESSA -My Name is Vanessa but everybody calls me NESSA
Mr Lex - What is your nationality?
MS. NESSA - I am 100% Colombian.
Mr Lex - How long have you been Modeling?
MS. NESSA -Its been about to be two years.
Mr Lex - I heard that your a very religious person do you feel like you have any extra hurdles that you have to overcome being in this industry?
MS. NESSA -I am not religious I believe in God and I know that's the only way to achieve my dreams. God do make part of my life. I don't call it"RELIGION"
its more of a relationship whit God and that's what has gotten me till this point in life.
Mr Lex - Are you single?
MS. NESSA -Yes, I am and NOT looking. lol
Mr Lex - (decides not to flirt with Nessa at this time lol) What do you like to do in your spare time?
MS. NESSA -I read , maybe go watch a movie , or just have one of those "MALL DAYS" hehehe just shop till i get tired!
Mr Lex - A Shopaholic i see What is your favorite TV show or movies I'm hooked on the real chance of love loldon't ask me why?
MS. NESSA -I'm not a big fan of t.v but i enjoy the Tyra Banks Show once in a while, but as far as movies i like bad boys 2 , Friday , my favorites movies are scary ones though too many to name.
Mr Lex - The last scary movie That really got me was final destinationI didnt even want to drive home from the theater lol and then when the lady got killed at her CPU......AWE mannn lets change the topic.... What is your favorite Song right now?
MS. NESSA -I'm feeling that "Love lockdown" by Kanye.
Mr Lex - Is there any clubs and locations where can people see you at?
MS. NESSA -Well the only clubs i go to are BED, THE FIFTH, DREAM, & MANSION. i hit the club here and there with all my fine homegirls so you might see me
somewhere in VIPchillin'.
Mr Lex - My new goal is to get VIP Access ASAP.... lol What are some of your goals?
MS. NESSA -Well i only not just model, i also design. My next goal its to bring my own swimsuit line to the U.S
Mr Lex - WOW good luck with that and please keep us posted What are some of your accomplishment to date?
MS. NESSA -Just making things happen , making something outta nothing.
I'm working on some things that are already accomplished
but i rather keep them to myself' till i can bring it around.
Mr Lex - What is the biggest misconception about you?
MS. NESSA -I would say some females always get the wrong impression till they get to know me.
I think that happens to most people, they say i look mean and i'm the opposite of that.
Mr Lex - And what is the best way to get in contact with you?